EP 074 Naughty Hotwife turned Cuckoldress?

A married woman in financial industry hits pay dirt when her husband discovers he enjoys watching her have sex with other men. They discover sex clubs and gang bang groups and parties. When does a hotwife situation turn into a cuckolding relationship? They check a lot of boxes. Clean up, humiliation, chastity. She also explains prostate milking and when her husband will be in permanent chastity.

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EP 74 Nauthgy hotwife turned cuckoldress
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Transcription:
Guest 0:00
There was a reverse gloryhole wall. 

Leyna 0:02
Oh, what is that?

Guest 0:06
That was the best I have ever had. Oh, is that I want to thank them and give them a hug and he was like 

Leyna 0:14
You didn't know it was a woman. 

Guest 0:15
I had no idea because I was behind a curtain. I could not see anything.

Guest 0:18
He put his hands inside of me and it's like, as soon as it goes in, goes straight up and just like starts moving his fingers around and it just starts flowing. 

Leyna 0:29
Wait, the whole hand?

Leyna 0:30
At what point did he become like more of a cuck in your eyes? 

Guest 0:36
So I mean, he did clean me up that night. Oh, I enjoy my vibrator a lot.

Leyna 0:44
Who doesn’t?
 
Guest 0:45
Yes, penetration as well. Yeah.

Guest 0:47
I was having sex with another man. The other man came in his condom. We took the condom and I gave it to my husband for him to drain it into his mouth. 

Leyna 0:58
And the husband likes it. 


Guest 1:00
He loved it. 

Leyna 1:01
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Leyna 1:39
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Leyna 2:09
My guest today is a 37 year old woman named D. Her husband is 47 They've been together 10 years married for five she works in the financial industry and D says when they met she had just gotten out of a vanilla marriage and really wanted to start exploring her sexuality. And boy are they doing that? Welcome to the show. So you wanted to start fulfilling some fantasies, right? 

Guest 2:35
Absolutely. When I was with my ex husband, it was just very vanilla once or twice a month sex and it was on 

Leyna 2:44
Hold on. Did you say twice a month? 

Guest 2:48
Yes, it was very rare. And I remember towards the end of our relationship like, I would surprise and be like, okay, just bend me over and let's do it right here right now. And he's like, What are you doing? We can't be doing that. So I'm like, 

Leyna 3:01
Okay, so was he very religious? Was that the reason? 

Guest 3:04
It wasn't necessarily him being religious. It was more about I really think like his masculinity because there were also times that I wanted to engage in anal and he refused because he told me it was gay. Oh, yes. 

Leyna 3:20
I wonder where all that came from? Because normally it's kind of a religious thing. You know, where they're raised being told certain things. Okay, bummer. Right, exactly.

Leyna 3:28
Okay, so then you get divorced and then you meet this new guy. Did you going into this or you'd like right away kind of really open about things?

Guest 3:40
So we began as friends. And we were chatting back and forth. I know we had worked together and we were chatting back and forth. And one of our conversations were about new things that we fantasized about and what we wanted to do you and one thing I had mentioned to him was I really wanted to have sex with multiple men at the same time. 

Leyna 4:03
Oh, like a gang bang? 

Guest 4:04
Yes. Or you know, a threesome or a foursome or moresome? And he was all into that. He is like, Yes, I love that. 

Leyna 4:14
Oh, oh, you found a live one.

Leyna 4:15
At this point, you're only talking to a friend, right? Yes. After you revealed this did that friendship kind of quickly move into something else? 

Guest 4:25
It began to evolve. I remember us playing a game one time I think it was like Scattegories or something. And we were on the same team. We had gotten every single answer correct. After that, you know, we we started to go forward in our friendship into more of a relationship. 

Leyna 4:43
How do you move from talking about fantasies to then trying to make some of them come true?

Guest 4:49
Once we were in a relationship about four to five months after that, we actually went to a swingers club. 

Leyna 4:56
Oh, have you ever been in one? 

Guest 4:58
I had never been to one before. 

Leyna 5:01
Do you know whether the new boyfriend has had any lifestyle experiences? 

Guest 5:06
He’s been in mostly vanilla relationships. He has had relationships in his early life where you know, they were sluts and that's one thing that he really loved about them, but there was never any kind of going out there and being with other people. 

Leyna 5:21
So tell me about this trip to the swing club. You've never been in one before. 

Guest 5:24
Never been to one before. I had no idea what to expect. This was up in Seattle. We walked in you know we checked in got the tour of the place. You know, there were so many different rooms, so many different levels. You know, there was an outdoor area because this place also doubled as a wedding venue.

Guest 5:43
So I just remember, you know, we're like okay, after we get our tour, we go put our stuff in a locker and, you know, we walk up to a room and it's kind of like a, I guess a voyeur slash you know, coupling room and we sit down on a bed across from this other bed and there are these people you know, getting it on and they were like, Hey, come join us. And so I'm like, okay, and I did it and I just start getting involved. And you know, my husband's right there with me and like, do you like girls? I'm like, No, I don't know what to do with them. Okay, problem. No, I don't and I still 

Leyna 6:19
But at this point, he's, he's still just your boyfriend? 


Guest 6:21
Yes. He is still just my boyfriend. 

Leyna 6:22
Okay. So when you said your got in there, what? Like, what did you do? 

Guest 6:26
And so it was also the first time I ever had sex with a black man, so they were just having sex with me. I had sex with a man while I was sucking another man off and you know, my husband there. He's stroking my head. And, oh, it was just a euphoric experience. 

Leyna 6:43
So but he wasn't one of the men you were having sex with? 

Guest 6:45
No, he was just a bystander. He was watching. 

Leyna 6:49
Well, he was just there for moral support. 

Guest 6:50
Yes, he was my moral support. 

Leyna 6:52
Nice. So then you've kind of found something that kind of cool and kinky, right? Yes. Now, why wasn't he involved in anything? 

Guest 7:02
He really truly enjoyed watching me get the pleasure. There were other times where you know he would be involved with other women as well, but his true thing was watching me receive pleasure and have fun. That's like his kink like he loves to see me having fun with other men. 

Leyna 7:20
So when you leave the sex club, and you know you're back to your regular lives, how did it affect you guys in the bedroom? 

Guest 7:28
Oh, it made everything so much more passionate. Really? Yes, we would be you know, we would be having sex with each other and just discussing like not really talking like a discussion but just being like, Oh my God, yes. I just had sex with all these different men and oh my god, they felt so amazing. And he's just like, you can see in his eyes, the passion drive in his eyes like he was just like, I love this. I love feeling you after other men have had you and this is so amazing for me. And you know, we would talk about it afterwards, you know, without intercourse, of course, but he just absolutely loved it and was enthralled with it from the beginning. 

Leyna 8:03
Okay, so it sounds like we've got the makings of a cuck 

Guest 8:06
Yes, I didn't exactly know at first what that was. But you know, I always say we started as Swingers, but he was always more of a voyeur than a soft swap, full swap kind of swinging dynamic, 

Leyna 8:20
Where you hooked then after the first trip? 

Guest 8:22
Oh, yes. 

Leyna 8:23
What did you do?
Guest 8:24
So after that first trip, we went to adult friend finder, and we met up with a gentleman at a bar. It was actually, I guess, the floor bar of the building. He had a penthouse in that building, and we went up to his penthouse and one thing led to another I'm there on my knees with that other gentleman and then we're in the bedroom and my husband is fully involved and DP happens, you know? 

Leyna 8:48
Okay, so this is a threesome?

Guest 8:50
Yes, it turns into a threesome. 

Leyna 8:52
Okay, I'm sure you did the, the swinger pit. What did they the swinger? What did they call that? A spit roast? 

Guest 9:01
Yes. Well, this wasn't exactly a spit roast just because I had my husband in my vagina and this other gentleman was in my ass. 

Leyna 9:08
Okay, so you did DP? 

Guest 9:10
Yes. But at first it was just me and him. Me and the other gentlemen playing and then it was like, let's try this out. And that was like what my core Fantasy was when I was first like speaking with my husband was what we did that night. 

Leyna 9:23
Oh, okay. So so your core Fantasy was a DP. And how was it? 

Guest 9:30
It was amazing. I loved it. I love like sitting on top of my husband looking into his eyes. I had somebody else behind me and just like all the motion and just like all the passion between my husband and I were connected on a different level. It was just a very good bringing together experience between he and I. 

Leyna 9:46
Was there any interaction between your husband and the other man? No. Okay. And then what is your guys do? You're moving right along here. You're doing very well, you doing very well D.

Guest 9:57
Then, you know, we would go to the swinger clubs from time to time and it was hit or miss like sometimes it would just be full on just couples and that just wasn't really what we were into because it was either like, Oh, how about your wife or your girlfriend and my wife, you know, make out do stuff. It's like, it's not really my thing. 

Leyna 10:18
So you really had no interest in being with other women. I did not. Okay. Did you try it? 

Guest 10:24
I’ve had other women do things to me like right before we moved away from Seattle. We went to that swingers club one more time and you know, they were announcing it and talking about it to everyone that it was our last night going to be there. And so I had a lot of people approaching me and there was one point where I was I was on in Ottoman and someone was on a couch and I was sucking him off while I had someone else behind me having sex with me and then I had a lady beneath me and she was licking me at the same time. 

Leyna 10:52
Okay, hold on. I'm just trying to catch up. Just trying to just try to picture this. Okay, very nice. All right. And you found that enjoyable? 

Guest 11:01
Yes, it was a lot of fun. People would call me a pillow princess. 

Leyna 11:04
Yes. That's what I was just about to say and you're okay with that? 

Guest 11:07
Yeah, that's fine. There's nothing derogatory or wrong with that. 

Leyna 11:12
Right? So it's, you know, it's whatever you're into, and whatever anyone else is gonna do. Right. 

Guest 11:15
Exactly. And that was like, you know, eight years ago, too. 

Leyna 11:20
Well, has anything changed in eight years? 

Guest 11:21
I mean, we went to an event two weeks ago, so and I was willing to go beyond those boundaries but I don’t know if I would go there yet. So did you I did not with anyone however, I was a pillow Princess again. There was a reverse glory hole wall. 

Leyna 11:38
Oh, what is that? 

Guest 11:40
So a glory hole is you know where the man stands behind a wall and he sticks his penis through the hole. The reverse gloryhole is there's like a bed kind of thing. And the woman she just like puts her bottom half outside of a curtain and her legs are up. And so there was a woman I was not aware of, but she was eating me out and doing all kinds of things with me. And after everything was said and done. I went to my husband, I was like, that was the best I have ever had. Oh, is that I want to thank them and give them a hug. And he was like, 



Leyna 12:11
you didn't know it was a woman. 

Guest 12:13
I had no idea because I was behind a curtain. I could not see anything. I and I was like, that was the best thing ever. No, he was like, Oh, it was so and so on. I was like, Oh, we talked to her earlier. So we went out found her and I gave her a hug. And I told her Thank you.

Leyna 12:25
And so eight years later, you still really haven't tried it? 

Guest 12:31
I have not. 

Leyna 12:32
You’re still a pillow princess. 

Guest 12:33
I’m still a pillow princess, but I was willing to explore and do different things like we had a friendly competition. It wasn't really a competition at all. It was just really a bringing together of other women in the lifestyle and it was called our slut sister bingo. So it was a bingo card. And each of the different squares had different things and the squares that I had suggested had a lot to do with anal and some squares that others had suggested were a lot to do with a girl on girl and so I was like, Okay, I'll try it. You know, there's I've never tried it before. I've always been concerned about doing it. But I feel comfortable with these ladies that if I have a question or a concern or if I'm doing it right doing it wrong, I can actually talk to them and I'll feel comfortable speaking with them about it, and they could help me walk through what I'm supposed to do. So isn't a very comfortable play, 

Leyna 13:23
Okay, but hold on a second hold on. So you know what you like when people go down on you. Right? Okay, what's your question? Really? Like? 

Guest 14:35
How do you do it? I don't even know how you're supposed to do it. 

Leyna 14:37
But but you know what you like? 


Guest 14:39
I do well, so okay, I'll backspace a little bit. What am I hard limits is I never enjoyed men going down on me. Oh, that was one of my hard limits. And I just recently opened it up about three months ago trying to re explore it rather than keeping it off the books, my hard limits before we're kissing and people going down on me so with both of those, I'm lifting them up. I'm exploring them again, just to see you know, because it has been, you know, 10 years. So those are the different things I'm exploring and I actually did squirt for the first time about two months ago and it was really good and I know how to do that. But I have nails so it's difficult to do that with nails. 

Leyna 15:21
Okay D pretend I have no idea cuz I don’t. All right. Explain to me what happened when you squirted it for the first time. 

Guest 15:35
You have these glands? Some people think that squirting is just a urine coming out of you but it really is not. You have these glands. I don't know exactly what they're called, but they're on your G spot area and when it's hit the right way or touch the right way. You squirt you have a fluid that comes out of you some people shoot it across the room some people just ooze it just depends on the person. So basically, it's like the spongy part inside your vagina. So I had a man you know, he was he put his hands inside of me and it's like, as soon as it goes in, goes straight up and just like starts moving his fingers around and it just starts flowing. 

Leyna 16:13
Wait the whole hand? 

Guest 16:14
No. Okay. I have not done that before and I really don't have a lot of preference for that. But yet it was like two or three fingers. I don't know how many was 

Leyna 16:24
Okay, gosh, we're just all over the place. I am going to, I'm gonna rewind to the spot. Where we're talking about you not being sure about how to go down on a woman. You enjoy it when your husband does it to you. Oh, you don't. 

Guest 16:40
I never enjoyed it personally at all. Like it's never been something that I've truly enjoyed. 


Leyna 16:45
You enjoy penetration more. 

Guest 16:47
Yes. And no, I enjoy my vibrator a lot. 

Leyna 16:50
Who doesn’t?

Guest 16:52
Yes, penetration as well. Yeah.

Guest 16:53
So but you know, after these experiences over the past couple of months, you know now I'm directing my husband as to what I enjoy and what I like so yes, it is getting really good at that. 

Leyna 17:04
This is really interesting because most women enjoy the clitoral stimulation more than penetration. 

Guest 17:11
Yes. And that's where my vibrator comes in play. 

Leyna 17:14
Right. But what about all these humans you're interacting with? So you don't want the oral? Like, how were you having your orgasms?

Guest 17:24
So the reason I wasn't truly into oral was because at the very beginning of our adventures, it was a lot of multiples or gang bangs you know any have a lot of man just trying to prove themselves or trying to like get down there and it just did not feel good whatsoever. So I was like no, I'm not doing this anymore. 

Leyna 17:44
But then what was your preference? What did you want instead of oral?

Guest 17:47
I love anal and I loved traditional penetration or just giving oral sex to men. Oh Like for me, those turned me on so much like just thinking about those different acts and what goes into play with them is just a huge turn on for me cuz I'm I'm a pleaser. I love pleasing people.

Leyna 18:03
Let's see if we can try to get back on track here. So now it's 10 years later, right? So you've been in the lifestyle 10 years, about 10 years. Yes. You still haven't gone down on another woman. Correct. So you're still a pillow princess. Yes, ma'am. You enjoy DP Yes. Have you done DVP I have. Do you like that? 

Guest 18:25
It was exciting. It meaning it only happened once. It's only happened once it was at a gang bang in Chicago. My you're just traveling the country with these gang bangs.

Guest 18:35
You gotta go you gonna go?

Leyna 18:38
But you really okay, so you moved from Seattle? To where can you tell me?


Guest 18:44
Houston. 

Leyna 18:48
So from Seattle to Texas. How did you end up in Chicago at a gangbang? 

Guest 18:50
We found out about this group online. I'm not sure exactly where but at one point, my husband was actually living in Seattle and I was living in Texas. And we met for the first one that we went to we actually met in Chicago. 

Leyna 19:05
So you found a gangbang group in Chicago? Yes, there has to be one that's closer. But what is special about about the one that you found in Chicago? 

Guest 19:15
So the one in Chicago. It was hosted at someone's home and they had it in their basement. It was about 25 men to three to four women. Oh, they would have like a dinner for everyone to like Meet and Greet initially. And then you know, the women would go up to the front of the dinner area and we would introduce ourselves and what are hard limits were what we liked what we don't like and then the men were taken down into the basement they were given the No means no discussions, you know, always wear a condom. You know, this is hand sanitizer. This is lubrication. Know the difference?

Guest 19:52
Yeah. And then, you know, women, you know, we were told if anyone does anything that you don't like, we have, you know, two off duty police officers here that are security and just let either one of them know and we'll take care of it. So it was a very safe and secure environment. 

Leyna 20:12
It sounds very well organized. It was very well. 25 men to three or four women. You were one of the women were the other women like wives or girlfriends of some of the men. 

Guest 20:21
I know that every once in a while they would bring like a porn star in Oh, so it would be like me, somebody that's like a porn star. I feel like there was always a lady that was there by herself and then someone that was coupled with someone else. 

Leyna 20:37
And then just a bunch of other men. Yes. Okay. Was your boyfriend and part of this gangbang 

Guest 20:45
He was he didn't do anything with me. He did you know, watch me and then he also you know, had some blow jobs on the side and played a little bit on the side but he was mostly there like basically holding my legs up. 

Leyna 20:55
So nice. He's so sweet. 

Guest 20:57
He is a sweet guy

Leyna 21:00
Okay, at what point did he become like more of a cuck in your eyes? 

Guest 21:08
So I mean, he did clean me up that night. Oh, yes. We went home. I still had cum all over me because a lot of women don't like to have men cum on their faces. That's something that I really do. Like, I think it's really hot. So we had had all the dried cum all over my body and we went back to the hotel and we licked it all up and he loved it. Oh, we're still kind of in like a hotwife kind of stag type of relationship. The moment that he truly became a cuck was our third trip to Chicago. And that was the year that he proposed to me. And when he proposed to me, he gave me the ring and so excited I was like, Oh my God, you know, I never expect that in the first place. And you know, I told him in his ear. I was like, by the way, you don't get to touch me until all these other men touch me. 

Leyna 21:56
He proposed to you right before the gang bang.

Guest 21:57
It was a Thursday and the gangbang was on a Saturday. 

Leyna 22:00
So from Thursday to Saturday, your man can't touch you.

Leyna  22:04
He will wait until after all the other men have had their way with you. Yes. Okay. 

Guest 22:12
It drove him crazy. So while we were there, we actually went to one of the local sex stores there and we're just looking at different things, you know, vibrators outfits, whatever, and I came across new thing of cages. 

Leyna 22:26
Did you know what they were? 

Guest 22:27
I did and I was very intrigued. I was like, Ooh, look at all these and my husband's like, oh wow, those are really nice. I was like, too bad you’re not my cuck. And he gave me a look. And I was like, you want to be my cuckold? He's like, yes. It's like Alright, I got a cage for you put it on. Wow. 

Leyna 22:40
And the rest is history. And the rest is history. So you've never looked back. 

Guest 22:46
Never looked back as but it's still evolving. You know, because there's such a wide variation of the cuckold dynamic, but yeah. 

Leyna 22:54
Okay, so where are you guys today? What's your dynamic like?



Guest 22:58
So today So we went to this events recently. He was caged the entire time, because he's always caged whenever I'm playing. Whenever I have something regularly going on, he's caged permanently to where he just gets Milked, which is a prostate milking type of thing. 

Leyna 23:17
Well, no, no, no, no, stop. No, no, stop. explained that. 

Guest 23:21
Okay. So it's basically he's in his cage still. And he's given prostate stimulation via his anus. And along with like, vibrations of like my vibrator on top of his penis. And that is how he comes 

Leyna 23:40
While he's still in his cage. Yes. Does he get erect?

Guest 23:43 not that much? Well, because he's in a cage, right? Exactly. Yeah, he gets as hard as he can. 

Leyna 23:48
Is that painful?

Guest 23:49
Yeah, yeah. After our event this past weekend, whenever he took it off. He was in a little bit of pain, but he likes it. Oh, he loved it. 

Leyna 23:59
And so you call that milking? Milking? Yes. Okay, so, so now you know, boy, now, D, now you're thing is like he goes long times and chastity and the only orgasms he has is when you milk him

Guest 24:16
So long as I have something on a regular basis. COVID definitely put a damper on that. I still have sex with my husband. I love my husband has sex with them. But you know, we spoke about this and once I get something back on the regular basis, then yes, he will be strictly milked. 

Leyna 24:32
Wow. Okay. What about the other stuff that people often hear about the degradation and humiliation? 


Guest 24:40
So on the humiliation aspect, it's not necessarily done while I'm playing with someone I mean, I will be in the throes of passion and you know, I'll talk about how much better this person is doing it then he can do it or how much bigger this other person is. However, most of that happens when it's just he and I and we're having sex together and you know, he'll be having sex with me and I'll just be telling him about how much better this other guy was and how much bigger he was and how I can barely feel him and you know, he just cums instantly. He does clean up so that's part of the humiliation part I would assume.

Leyna 25:15
And he really enjoys that. 

Guest 25:19
Oh, he love's it. One of the things that our slut sister bingo card brought to the table was feeding the cum from a condom to them. And that was the first time we had ever done that and he actually truly enjoyed it. 

Leyna 25:33
Okay, walk me through it. 

Guest 25:35
I was having sex with another man. The other man came in his condom. We took the condom and I gave it to my husband for him to drain it into his mouth. 

Leyna 25:47
And the husband likes it. He loved it. Do you like it?

Guest 25:48
I thought it was hot because it has all of my scents all over it and he is wanting to be a part of it and doing it that way and it was amazing. 

Leyna 25:57
Okay, so the satisfaction you get out of him doing that. Is it more emotional like boy he's gonna do this for me? 

Guest 26:07
Absolutely. It's definitely emotional. And then you know when we're just together and our dynamic together when no one else is around is just so much stronger. 

Leyna 26:18
And I assume that your regular friends don't know you guys are into this stuff.

Guest 26:24
Oh no no, oh no

Leyna 26:26
And do you like it that way? Or do you wish you could be open? 

Guest 26:31
You know, I do like it that way because there is so much judgment with lifestyle. Now if it were to come out that I am in the lifestyle, I would fully embrace it. I'm not going to shy away from it and shy away from who I am. I'm not going to go hide in a hole because this is what I like. This is what my husband likes this what we'd like to do together. Like we do this together. It's a partnership and I feel like we have the best communication. We talk about everything. There's so many couples out there that don't really talk that much at all and I love my relationship and I'm not going to let somebody judgment on me, damper that.

Leyna 27:06
You can find her on Twitter. She's @Naughtyhotwife7

Leyna 27:12
Next time on consenting adults. A lonely housewife leaves her husband builds an empire and after 10 years of celibacy, puts an ad on Craigslist for a cuck. She's now happily married in a non monogamous relationship. 

Guest 27:29
He left an instruction before he arrived he wanted my husband to bring him his drink drop to his knee and suck his dick as an establishment of who's in charge here. 

Leyna 27:40
That’s next time on consenting adults