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A married couple starts exploring both of their bisexuality, with the wife going from being weirded out to being turned on by seeing her husband with a man. Not only does she enjoy watching, but participating with him. They say the openness and acceptance has not only made their sex life hotter, but it's also enhanced their marriage.
A couple who became very close to a yoda couple find themselves "single again" and a bit loss after their couple split up, but are getting back into the swing of things. She prefers not just same-room sex but a more constant connection with her husband even when they have sex with others. Shane and Erin help define sex terms like the difference between a hotwife and a vixen and other nuances in the lifestyle. Our special thanks to them for the use of their glossary.
It takes time and work in the lifestyle to meet people, first online then in person. This DTF couple has a system down for sifting and sorting through swingers so they don't waste time on couples who aren't ready to play. Isis and Eros prefer separate beds or even separate rooms because people have different rhythms and styles in bed. They admit to making a lot of mistakes in the beginning and regret the opportunities they missed.
A woman is introduced to the lifestyle by a boyfriend but after they break up, she stays in as a unicorn. She likes to hook up with couples, some of them just traveling through California and she requires the female to want bisexual play. Natalia talks about what draws her to couples.
Some things you can't learn in a book, like how you're going to feel watching your partner have sex with someone else, whether you're ok playing separately, or how bisexual you really are. This sexy librarian and her husband found they prefer a relationship over just sex, and playing separately is surprisingly enjoyable. They immersed themselves in the lifestyle and learned specifically how to enjoy better orgasms and a new dynamic with other partners.
Sophia is a stay-at-home mom who sets up dates for her husband and enjoys hearing about his sexual exploits. She's bisexual and finds it difficult to find other "real" bisexual women in the lifestyle. Having had her share of pillow princesses, she's looking for other women to share with her husband who also want to please her as much as she enjoys pleasuring them.
A woman with past sexual trauma says the lifestyle makes her feel desired and confident. She feels sexier now over 50 than she did in her 30's. She has picked up healthier habits, takes better care of herself and is a different woman! Natasha hooked up with a bouncer at the sex club in her first experience and ended up having sex with 5 men that night. She's now exploring other activities and is literally training for anal play.
David Webb --divorced, single, and lonely, was looking to find hotwives because he wasn't looking for a relationship. He ended up falling in love with the first hotwife he slept with and is now in a poly triad with her and her husband. He talks about how single males should show respect for the husband, what kind of photos to use, and shares the good, bad, and embarrassing; like his problems retaining an erection. David and his hotwife couple are Christians, and have no problems reconciling the lifestyle with their faith. David shares his experiences in two books: Hotwife Dating Diaries & The Book of Secrets.
A doctor and his wife experiment with role-playing and BDSM and end up in the lifestyle as swingers, but they're not in it just for the sex; there has be an intellectual connection. They also re-define bisexuality after experiencing pleasure with the same sex without emotional attachment. The good doctor explains the difference between the G-spot and A-spot and how to reach and stimulate them.
They married as high school sweethearts but got curious about what it's like to be with other people. After 7 years of monogamy, these young swingers found they like group sex, orgies, and some BDSM that includes choking. She also has a praise kink and is bisexual.
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