I love your show. Like everything you do—it’s with humor and class and positivity! To that end, I saw that you have an advice section and I’d love to put this out there. (Plz don’t show my name though) I see a lot about men watching their wives. I’m the opposite. I love watching my husband—at least I want to watch. I’ve brought it up but he doesn’t seem interested which seems so weird, most men would jump at the opportunity. I’d be good with getting him a prostitute even. How else can I “get him there?” AND where can I find women willing to sleep with my husband so I can watch? I don’t hear much of that talked about. Is this a “thing” and how do we find someone? We both have jobs that would be in jeopardy if this came to light. How do we not get burned? Thank you so much for all you do!
Thanks for the kind words. As we know, there's a spectrum. You don't have to like humiliation or degradation to be a cuckquean and really, not much sounds weird to me anymore. I spoke to someone about your question and she said something that makes a lot of sense: "Search it in porn and if not much comes up, it's rare." So although your desires, playstyle, kink may be rare, it's not weird. :-) I'm still looking for other cuckqueans to interview. Here is the one I did talk to, and please read on to see what our listeners have to say.
From Twitter @HedonistMidwest
Wow I would think there would be plenty of women out there that would be interested. Talk between yourselves on what you both want, and keep looking and you will find her!
Well I was having a discussion about this yesterday! I pick from closer contacts over strangers, but we have gone that route as well. The Quean I spoke to prefers http://Fetlife.com . I trust my friends, and one time, a co-worker, to not spill the beans.
From Twitter @Hotwife463
It’s not as common but there are women out there that really enjoy seeing their man be their own personal porn star. I’d give the same advice to her as I would to a Cuckold couple. Put the information out there, clearly state why you’re into this & how you hope it will enhance your relationship. And then give them time to process. Don’t push. Be patient. Talk talk talk. This lifestyle will be here when you are ready. As far as finding people, swinger dating sites are a good place to start. Be honest about what you’re looking for and try to connect with people as individuals rather than breathing sex dolls to fulfill a fantasy. Good luck! #cuckoldingislove #ethicalnonmonogamy
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